Time passes by quickly

Fashions have a circular life

One moment in the spotlight and the other in obscurity

Look at all-stars sneakers, skinny jeans, beards

Things that your fathers, grandfathers and in some cases, your great-grandfathers used

Two things are for sure

Things of the past have a tendency to come back

If you keep something stored for long enough, you may get a chance to use it

When the fashion returns at the end of its cycle

There is a new fashion in the market

It is called bareback

Men having sex without a condom

Men having sex, because they want to to it without a condom

Men getting together in parties for the purpose of having sex without condoms

Men who refuse to do sex with a condom

Let us look at this phenomenon, with open minds on both sides of the spectrum

Condoms are something that is around for many years, in fact even centuries

The first reported events involved using the intestinal walls of lambs, to cover the penis in the middle ages in Europe

From there up to now it became more industrialised and easily distributable, being found in pharmacies and supermarkets as well as distributed freely in some places and events

Although the original purpose of the condom was to prevent impregnation, it also allowed the prevention of sexually transmitted diseases

With the apparition of AIDS, an incurable disease that at the time didn’t have any type of medication that could stop it from evolving, many people men, women and children died

The condom became the protector of lives when there was nothing else available

And it worked

 

Fast forward the story to 2019

One of the medications used for the treatment of HIV/AIDS is seem as being able to protect against infection from HIV positive people

People with sexually active lives, began using it everyday

Some, together with the usage of the condom, others without it

As long as you used the medication, it didn’t matter if you were infected (treatment as prevention) or not ( PReP) you were safe to play around

Now.. is that true

The answer is.. no

That medication does not ensure 100% protection at this stage

And as for all the other STDs, 0%

I would love that there was a pill that one could take to protect against all diseases

In fact, if it existed, I would take two per day just to be sure that I am not a risk for any of my slaves

 

But unfortunately for now, there is no such thing

Now you may think that I am going to talk to you about hepatitis, sífilis, gonorrhoea, herpes, mrsa, sepsis, hiv resistance and the multitude of condoms available to use to protect yourself

 

I assume that you are a big boy and that you understand the risks that come from an unsafe behavior

What I want to know is

Why the fuck am I forced to take that same unsafe behavior just to be with you

Why half a millimeter of latex is going to prevent you from feeling my cock

Why, when you say that you have no limits, you impose one that prevents you from having safe sex with someone

Why, when you say that you will take whatever I throw at you, a small piece of rubber can make such a huge deal in your mind

Why, when you have the chance to be with someone with a lot less worries in your mind, you go above and beyond what that protection may give you just to be in an even bigger risk than before

Why, while you care not for your own safety, you cannot care for mine

My slaves are my servants

They care for my needs

And I am their Master

I care for their safety

If you want a taste of my seed or a drink from my fountain, you may ask for it

But I will never demand that from you or give it to you if you haven’t asked me for that

If you haven’t beg me for that

And that is as far as I am willing to go

 

If my question for safe sex gets a “never” from you

Then my answer to a possible visit to you will be the same

 

Never