Lighting the switch

 

I am a sub, but I can also switch

 

How many times I have seen this

 

A strange sentence in many ways

 

As it is stating the obvious

 

 

I am passive, but I can also be active

 

As long as you can get a hard-on on that cock of yours, you can do it

 

I am a slave, but I can also be a master

 

As long as you can set your mind to it, I have no doubt about it

 

 

Being a master or a slave is not something born from the blessings of the gods

 

It is a personal choice

 

It is finding out what can give you the most pleasure, what can fulfil you more and going with it

 

 

Being a switch should not be about having a fail-safe mechanism that triggers in when things go wrong with being a slave

 

Nor should it be something that kicks in when you can’t find a proper master to play with, something born out of desperation or boredom

 

Being a slave is enjoying being under the rule of another person

 

Allowing yourself to take pleasure of that loss of control, of the multitude of feelings and emotions that come and overcome you

 

Of pleasuring another, but feeling pleasure as if it were your own

 

Of feeling lost, but safe in another persons’ arms

 

 

Being a master is being able to provide that to the one you rule over

 

 

As for the switch, it is about playing these roles with all your heart and feeling pleasure in both variations

 

Like with the light bulbs, the longer it is lit, the brighter it will be

 

So aim to maintain that brightness as much as you can

 

And remember to shine the way that you like

2020

Doubts

Perceptions

Humane

Fresh look

Trial discount

Footprint in the sand

Opportunity

The search

Lighting the switch

The genie

Wish list

Wishes

Is BDSM for me

One size fits all

Puppet on a string

Twist and turn

Letter from a slave

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