The s&M Relationship

This is probably the dream of every slave

There isn’t a set of rules in terms of what happens and how it will work

It is up to the Master & slave to define how this will function

The relationship exists when there is a connection that is maintained between the slave and the Master, for a longer period than a couple of weeks

There are two distinct categories than can be mixed

The outdoor slave

Set for regular meetings, free to have a personal life but bound by an external element to maintain the connection

Usually a collar, chastity device, blackmail, etc.

The indoor slave

A resident of the house of the Master, and usually goes around being a toy and/or a servant for Him

As in any relationship, it takes two to maintain it

For those considering the possibility of offering/wanting an indoor slave, there are things you must consider

For a master, having a permanent slave demands time, dedication and resources as you will have another mouth to feed, even if it will be just table scraps

Besides that,  you also have to know that the longer you have a slave, the less are his abilities to rejoin the “normal” world

Another aspect to consider is that if you have the slave in your house, how will you present the slave to your visitors, specially non s&M friends and family

Beyond all this if you want to maintain him, there are health aspects that will be required even if all goes well

For a slave, being a permanent resident means that you subject yourself to your Master desires

There is no turning back

As you lose yourself in His hands, your grasp of reality changes

Nothing you did will seem real and it may not seem real again when you return

At the same time, there are questions regarding your “normal” life that you will have to tend to from time to time, such as personal events (family, bank, health checks) among other things

This decision is not something to take lightly either way

You have to be sure you REALLY want to be/to have a slave

Another aspect to consider is how you will be able to maintain the part of slave/Master for a long period of time

As time progresses there is the tendency to forget the parts being played and the s&M slowly dissolves into just being a relationship where there is occasional hard play

As such, for the relationship to be maintained in the original context, a set of rules must be maintained, properly formalized in the form of the Contract stipulating the roles and the conditions for the relationship to happen and the acceptance of both parties

All aspects should be considered, so take your time to set things right before making it happen

Remember that although you will be Master & slave, you are both human

There are flaws in everyone, some easy to fix and other not so easy

And both may discover things that you don’t like

The s&M relationship offers nevertheless a chance for unbound discovery and surrender

Where you will be in contact with your most basic self exposed to the other part, him being the Master or the slave

As layers are peeled you will find your true role