An S&M Perspective of Life, Dominance and Submission

From A to B

A: I am not a slave

 

 

B: I am not asking you to be one

 

That has to be your own choice to make

 

 

 

A: But I want to be with you and enjoy what you have to offer

 

 

B: Then you will have to be one for the duration of one contract

 

 

 

A: But I am submissive and not a slave

 

 

B: Have you tried it and more importantly, have you tried it with me

 

 

 

 

A: I haven’t, but I have been with others and I didn’t enjoy it

 

 

B: As I have tried it with other supposed slaves in the past and didn’t enjoy it as well, but I still continue taking new slaves and giving them a chance

 

 

What doesn’t work with one, can work with another, if you are open to it

 

 

 

A: Why would it work with you

 

 

B: I don’t know

 

 

You will have to read the blog as well as the book, ask the questions in your mind until you feel I can be what you seek

 

 

 

A: Can you give me a summary of what you offer that is different of what others do

 

 

B: Yes, this blog and the book exist for that purpose

 

 

They summarize what I offer, what I do and the reasoning behind that

 

 

See if you can find someone else capable of doing so in a coherent and constructive way

 

 

Evaluate what you read and make your choice

 

 

 

A: But it is too much to read and I don’t have the time

 

 

B: As you evaluate me by my words, I evaluate you by your reactions at my words

 

 

Lazy is a word that comes to me quite easily

 

 

If you aren’t even able to read and let my simple words work it’s magic in your mind, I doubt that you might be a good choice for me

 

 

 

A: But what I want is sex with a top in gear

 

 

B: Then you will easily find someone else that can entertain you

 

 

And you won’t need to make 3000km to get it

 

 

The question should be, why do you keep seeking out other people and are even considering someone this far from you

 

 

My guess is that something is missing from what you have been experiencing up to this point and my offer seems to provide you with more than you have found up to this moment

 

 

A: But you sound so serious in what you do

 

 

B: If you prefer finishing up in an hospital or with a desease to take home, then you can find a more playful guy out there

 

 

If I was in your shoes, I would ask and in fact demand that the one that takes me is serious about what he does

 

 

But being serious does mean that I don’t laugh, smile or care for my slaves

 

 

 

A: Isn’t being a slave just being stripped naked, chained, beaten and raped all day long

 

 

B: For some perhaps, but my way does not work in that fashion

 

 

For a first, it would get boring and tiresome

 

 

I am not excited by birds in cages

 

 

I prefer interaction at a deeper level, and to lock you up without chains, but with your own desires

 

 

 

A: Isn’t that something like sex

 

 

B: It contains the same ingredients, but it is deeper and more meaningful than that

 

 

For more on that continue reading the blog or read the book

 

 

 

A: What do you do with your slaves

 

 

B: There is a keyword list on my recon profile

 

 

That is what I do

 

 

 

A: There are many items that I don’t know what they are or that I don’t want to do

 

 

B: My game is a challenging one and my challenges are in my keywords

 

 

I play around them and I can find something to show you that will bring out the slave within you

 

 

Being a slave means being bound in fresh and unbound in mind

 

 

If it presents a problem, the there is a challenge within, that should be explored bit by bit, until you can be comfortable with that in the future

 

 

The steps may be big or small, according to your stage, but one that I want to explore in you

 

 

There are restrictions that apply due to your normal life that I can accept ( the shaving part is usually the most frequent complain), but as for the rest I consider most of them mandatory

 

 

My game is offered as such

 

 

If you feel the need to bargain, either you have something to offer that I can find valuable or my interest will be lost rather easily

 

 

A: Do you accept anyone as a slave

 

 

 

B: Yes, if you have a hundred thousand euros to pay up (kidding)

 

 

I don’t do this for money, or for fame

 

 

My time is limited, so I have listed the minimum requirements that will let me accept you

 

 

Of course just that is not enough

 

 

Three things are needed if you are to come

 

 

a) you have to phisically be what I want (requirements list)

 

 

b) play the game as I like to play (keyword list)

 

 

c) show me that you are a man and not an animal, with good table manners, intelligent enough to know what you are doing, why you are doing it and with an open mind to events and possibilities

 

 

Another restriction is, if you are owned, your Master has to solicit me first before applying

 

 

 

A: Your list does not have all the items that I like to play with

 

 

B: If you are able to please me properly, I can do one more trick or two

 

 

 

A: But I need it to play, specially poppers

 

 

 

B: As I said before, if you already serve a Master, he has to ask me

 

 

If he has a given name, such as John, Mary or Joseph for instance, he can address me

 

 

If his name is drugs, tobacco, alcohol, poppers or some other common name to which you bend to, then you can’t come as they do not have the ability to speak

 

 

If you cease to be a slave to them, I may consider your application

 

 

 

A: Can a session happen immediately after talking to you

 

 

B: There are occasions when I may be open to it, but usually things are set weeks in advance

 

 

 

A: Can I get a chance to sample it before taking a contract

 

 

B: I am not in the cake business, so no free samples

 

 

You want to try it, then start with the smaller weekend contract

 

 

 

A: Can I skip all those contracts and go straight to the permanent one

 

 

 

B: Permanent contracts are not jokes to be done on whims

 

 

Only those that have finished their trainings with me are entitled to talk about it to me

 

 

All the rest are immediately discarded

 

 

 

A: And if after I am with you I discover that I like being a slave in your hands and want to go further

 

 

 

B: Then the first step is done and there are more to be taken

 

 

 

A: And if I discover that I don’t like it

 

 

B: Then you will have learned one more thing about you that you didn’t know and that is out of your system for good

 

 

Either way I won’t measure my success based on your return or not

 

 

In the end, it is not a matter of liking or not liking

 

 

In many cases it is a matter of needing it

 

 

An escape valve to your everyday life, a moment where you can let go of all your facades

 

 

A moment to laugh, scream and cry

 

 

To feel in your body something that is real and to be with someone in whom you can trust to take you on such a voyage

 

 

That seems to be something worth of the trip

 

 

 

A: And if I don’t want to go beyond that one contract

 

 

B: Then it is done and you and I continue living our lives, each in its separate directions

 

 

You don’t even have to acknowledge me for what I gave you or even greet me on the street (something very common to happen with portuguese slaves)

 

 

Your secret is safe and whatever had to be extracted from the event, happened in that moment in space and time

 

 

Our moment in space and time

 

 

And the memories will be yours to keep

 

 

 

A: And if afterwards I decide to take another Master

 

 

B: It is part of your growth as a slave if you do it

 

 

I will not chain you to my wall because of that

 

 

A: And if I have another Master that I serve and want to go to you

 

 

 

B: Then ask your Master for permission

 

 

I don’t eat from the bowl of others without asking

 

 

That is rude for me and your Master

 

 

 

A: And if I have a family or a non bdsm partner and want to be with you

 

 

B: The arrangements in your private life are yours to make

 

 

I honestly don’t care and don’t want to know as I will not provide much information about mine

 

 

Being an adult means making choices and accepting consequences

 

 

All that I can say is that your secret is safe with me, but I believe in being honest about it, whenever possible

 

 

 

A: Can I trust you to keep my secret

 

 

 

B: Trust is not given

 

 

It is earned

 

 

All that I can say is that without trust, nothing works

 

 

Even with a million toys to play with

 

 

But to trust, you have to live an experience where that trust can be put to the test and taken to the limit

 

 

I can provide a face, a name, a number and an address when we reach an agreement regarding a possible date

 

 

My profile is old and have some recognizing me as known

 

 

I could also ask if you are trustable enough for me to let you enter my house and perhaps my life, but it is futile for us both

 

 

The only way of knowing is by trying

 

 

No way out of that

 

 

What works for some may not work for you and vice versa

 

 

Read, ask and make your own conclusions

 

 

You are doing this for yourself, not for me

 

 

The sentence

 

 

 

I want to serve you, Master

 

 

 

starts with you, stating an objective towards an destination

 

 

And if I say no, you will direct it towards someone else

 

 

It is in you that it all starts

 

 

Choose me as your destination, make your objective sound and strong and I may take you up for the journey of a lifetime

 

 

 

Or nor, and you may follow your way