An S&M Perspective of Life, Dominance and Submission

Wanting

We all need a drive to move us forward

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The need for more

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Quantity or quality

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More times, more people, more fucks, more toys, more extreme versus more time, more connection, more exploration, more simplicity

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It can be argued that to discover what you want you need to try out all that is offered, seek different partners in crime and experiment to see what works and doesn’t work for you

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And what does not work, you leave behind and try something new

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And I agree

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But are you truly living the experience in that moment or just looking ahead to the next event in your mind

 

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It is true that time is short and you have to live while you can, but time is limited either way

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You cannot live all in one lifetime

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And that is a fact

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Life is made of choices

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You can choose to jump from stone to stone, barely touching it, or you can walk on it, slowly and step by step

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Both will take you to your destination, whatever that may be

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True enjoyment comes not just from the arrival but from the journey there

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You should move quickly if you are doing something you don’t like

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You should move slowly if you are enjoying it, savoring every second as it was your last

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Fruits grow in the tree without you pointing and shouting at it

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All you have to do is give it time and care and they will grow on its own

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What you have to do is wait

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When you find a good tree

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What makes a good tree, you might ask

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It is not only the fruit

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But it is the shape, the smell and the shade it can provide when you lean over it, that makes you feel good and at home, even when you are not biting the fruit

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The fruit only lasts for a season

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The tree can last a lifetime

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You can jump from tree to tree, trying every fruit, if they exist

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But the more you pick, the more you will be picky

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And no fruit will taste good for you

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And if after all that effort to choose, you can finally choose the one you like best

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Someone will be there under the shade

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Make the best possible choice

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That is what I want from you

2018

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Wanting

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To my love