There is are many ways to do BDSM

Allow me describe you one

Where a spank does not mean that it needs to bruise beyond what the skin can take before it remains in the mind

Where humiliation does not mean that I have to call you names or be rude

Where abuse does not mean that it has to be non-consensual

Where pain does not have to be either unbearable, displeasing or out of context

Where sobriety is a requirement to feel and understand what is being done

Where toys are used to complement a session and not its purpose

Where other than disconnecting from everything, you are centered and directed

Where other than feeling worthless, you find value and recognition in what you are

But to some BDSM has the opposite form

And some seek it feel it applied that way

I do not know what fits you best

But I know what I can and want to offer

Choose your path

And perhaps

I’ll be there to meet you