An S&M Perspective of Life, Dominance and Submission

One size fits all

 

Or at least fits most

 

Something you would search for in a hat

 

But not for something as complex as this game

 

But some are happy with such an approach

 

 

I leave you with a question

 

The path of experimenting is one that seduces many slaves

 

Trying out that which the “normal” way cannot provide

 

Seeking to break boundaries and restrictions that would not be possible in any other way

 

But the same time, I find it odd that players limit themselves in so many ways

 

Going for specific things and actions

 

When they could do it all if they truly lived under such a mantra

 

Why is that

 

 

Although strange in my eyes, I understand those motivations

 

A familiar ground is always easier to face than the complete unknown

 

 

My game in many ways does not match what others offer, neither in form or fashion

 

That is its appeal as well as its deterrent

 

 

To live the game for me means to live it out of any shape others impose

 

To live it in my own way, under my own terms

 

 

That does not mean that I have no limits

 

Those are set in stone from the very beginning and agreed upon since the start of any conversation with potential slaves

 

I only take those that fit what I can and want to do

 

But from that point on, I paint my canvas as I wish, in an individualised way

 

For you and specifically for you

 

 

I do not seek the same shape

 

I do not seek the same background

 

I do not seek the same purposes

 

I am open to those that come, as they come

 

And I live my story with them

 

Taking what can be done

 

To the limit of what us both can enjoy

 

If not in the physical sense

 

Then in a mental sense

 

BreakingΒ  what held you down

 

Finding out who you truly are

 

And you want to become

 

 

Not all have the courage to face the mirror and look at themselves laid bare

 

Grabbed by a hand that lifts them high in the air with nothing solid to stand on

 

Other than the convictions they have deep inside

 

 

Many run away from the truth for a lifetime

 

While some take their chance with someone they can trust, knowledgeable and capable

 

And they seek me

 

Tearing down walls that separate

 

Building bridges that connect

 

Holding tight to you when you have nothing to hold on to

 

 

That is my work

 

Something that I can feel proud of doing

 

And so will you

 

2020

Doubts

Perceptions

Humane

Fresh look

Trial discount

Footprint in the sand

Opportunity

The search

Lighting the switch

The genie

Wish list

Wishes

Is BDSM for me

One size fits all

Puppet on a string

Twist and turn

Letter from a slave